Call me a conservationalists or freaking outdated caveman but I think when you get into a relationship, it's for life. I mean like, why do you get into a relationship in the first place if you are not thinking of spending your life with that person.. I know there's all this bullshit about 'living life to the fullest' or 'enjoying it while it lasts' or let's listen to one of our all time favourite 'lets give it a shot' but why do we need to subject ourselves to our mindless appetite for love?? It's not like each and everyone of us are cancer patients given 6 months to live, or prison inmates on death row that we don't enough time to take a rational approach to love...
I believe there are many levels for love.. There is love for God, our parents, siblings, friends, lovers, etc and most importantly for yourself... If you don't love yourself sincerely, then who is going to?? I'm not asking you to be narcisistic or anything but appreciate yourself for getting all the blessings that the other person is not having because of their adverse situations.
I'm a risk taker.. I know some things and I don't know a lot, I'll give you that... Love is addictive and in fact there are so many people outside there finding for something to fill up their lonely hearts that it's amazing to see someone walking out there with a clear headed mind on the subject of love. Sometimes, even I pose questions to myself that I can't answer but you know what... I've realised something.. For women, they always take the right decision first and then switch to their second decision which is wrong because they try to accomodate to people's needs and worst of all feel guilty for some fault which is not theirs... For men, they always make the wrong decision first and after some careful thorough 'alone time' they make the right decision.. Men, we think with our balls most of the time and women with their heart.. Funny huh??
It was very easy when we were young but I'm sure you realise that when you grow older things get rather complicated.. Even I almost fell from grace and reduced myself to mortal vulnerable Clark Kent recently.. I finally realise that you should rise in love when you love someone or be loved by someone.. in that way.. it will definitely make you feel invulnerable... At the same time, if you feel that you've taken enough shit being vulnerable and you wanna feel invulnerable again, then you gotta dump that asshole/bitch and get on with your life cause i'm sure there's another deserving person for you out there that is just waiting for you to open up your heart to them.. Whatever it is, you'll know what to do when the time comes.. I only pray that you have the courage to take a leap of faith into the unknown..
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